Longing for Love? Be nice!

Here is our unsolicited advice for our single readers longing for love : BE NICE!

Yes, it’s just that simple. 

Being nice is attractive. There is not enough nice in this world. You never know when you’re going to be nice to someone and they’re going to notice. You may be nice to a total stranger who may turn out to be your true love. You’ll be like a rainbow in the gray of life. And others will notice. 

But you can’t just be nice to those you’re interested in and trying to attract. That will be noticed too. You need to be nice to everyone. EVERY ONE. And not just some of the time. ALL OF THE TIME. Being nice all of the time forms a habit and habits form who you are…the genuine you.
Being nice is nice. But being nice all of the time to everyone is very attractive.  

Being mean, mean-spirited or offensive to others is very NOT attractive. One single lapse into one of those can repel love and turn an otherwise potential lover against you forever. You’ll be perceived as two-faced, untrustworthy and not very attractive. Being nice all the time to everyone is attractive…genuinely.

Speaking from experience, Ed was attracted to Leslie years before he asked her out. He could see that she was nice to others. He found that very attractive. He observed her over years being nice to others – children, the elderly, strangers… He wanted to know more about her. He soon had opportunities to interact with her. She was nice to him too! He found this very attractive and wanted to know more about her so he asked her out…and the rest is true love history!

So what are you waiting for? 
Be nice!  

And maybe, just maybe, you’ll find true love!  

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About Ed Novick

Ed was born in Chicago, IL, USA with good health to two terrific parents, and raised in a family of faith in God and Jesus Christ in the south suburb of Midlothian, IL. He has a younger brother who is a great guy and was always a good friend (he is now a Roman Catholic priest). He attended private schools and was active in his community. He went to college at Lewis University in Romeoville, IL and graduated with an MBA. He has good friends and a loving extended family. He is married and has three children and lives in Midlothian, IL. Ed works in the Property & Casualty Insurance industry and currently markets business and personal Property & Casualty insurance. He's currently proudly serving as President of the Lewis University National Alumni Association. He doesn't take his blessings lightly and vigilantly does the best he can with the gifts and talents the good Lord blessed him with. Ed's interests include: Property & Casualty Insurance; Leadership: Web Development; Communications; Graphic Design; Personal Development; Networking; Mentoring; Coaching; Sports; Physical Fitness; Touch Football; Over-30 Baseball; Weightlifting; Fantasy Football; Lewis University National Alumni Association; Poetry; Music. For more info: LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/ednovick Blog: http://betterlivinged.wordpress.com/
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